Feminism Books

Books examining gender, power, and relationships through feminist therapy perspectives and intersectional understanding.

  • Mothers, Daughters, and Body Image: Learning to Love Ourselves as We Are

    McBride’s first book asks a question most body image research skips: not what goes wrong, but how some women ended up at peace with their bodies anyway. The sample is narrow and the editing is rough. The ladder metaphor is worth the trouble.
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  • How We Show Up by Mia Birdsong — a community and relationships resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community

    Mia Birdsong argues that isolation isn’t just a personal problem. How We Show Up makes the case for chosen family, deeper friendships, and community as the antidote to the loneliness baked into American life.
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  • The Body Is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor — a body positivity resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love

    Sonya Renee Taylor’s ‘radical self-love’ framework is sharper on body terrorism than on practice. A therapist’s honest take on who this book serves well, who it doesn’t, and what to pair it with.
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  • The Feminist Porn Book edited by Tristan Taormino — essays on feminism and pornography recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure

    What happens when feminists make porn? This essay collection from performers, directors, and scholars answers that question with more nuance and honesty than you’d expect. Academic in places, personal in others, provocative throughout.
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  • No Holes Barred by Mandii B & Weezy WTF — a sex therapy resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power

    Born from the wildly popular podcast WHOREible Decisions, this NYT bestseller is raw, funny, and genuinely insightful about sex, desire, healing, and owning your pleasure without apology.
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  • Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown — a social justice resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    Pleasure Activism: Finding Joy and Healing Through Therapy

    adrienne maree brown argues that pleasure isn’t frivolous — it’s a form of resistance. This book explores how centering joy and embodied experience can enhance both healing and social justice work.
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  • Getting It by Allison Moon — a sex therapy resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex

    An inclusive, shame-free guide to navigating casual sex and hookups — covering communication, consent, and the emotional stuff that most hookup guides conveniently skip.
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  • My Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein — a gender affirming care resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    My Gender Workbook: How to Become a Real Man, a Real Woman, the Real You, or Something Else Entirely

    An interactive, thought-provoking workbook that turns gender exploration into something playful and personal — with real exercises for figuring out who you are, on your own terms.
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  • Tomboyland by Melissa Faliveno — an LGBTQ+ identity resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    Tomboyland: Essays

    In a world that demands certainty, “Tomboyland” reminds us that our most authentic selves often emerge in the spaces where categories fail us.
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  • She Comes First by Ian Kerner — a sex therapy resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

    Ian Kerner’s guide to oral sex puts female pleasure front and center — valuable for its anatomical clarity and focus on communication, though it has real limitations around inclusivity.
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  • Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski — a sex therapy resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

    Emily Nagoski breaks down the science of women’s sexuality in a way that actually makes sense — normalizing the huge range of how desire, arousal, and pleasure work (and sometimes don’t).
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  • Are Prisons Obsolete? by Angela Davis — a social justice resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    Are Prisons Obsolete?

    Angela Davis makes the case that prisons don’t keep us safe and imagines what more just, healing-centered alternatives could look like. Short, sharp, and hard to put down.
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  • The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy — a polyamory therapy resource recommended by Blue Canary Psychotherapy

    The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

    The book that put ethical non-monogamy on the map. Now in its third edition, it covers consent, communication, jealousy, and how to build fulfilling relationships outside the monogamy box.
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